You Really Can’t Forgive Yourself
The notion that one must learn to forgive oneself for past sins has gained traction in modern thought. However, this concept stems from humanistic philosophy, not biblical truth. The idea that personal forgiveness can erase sin misunderstands the nature of forgiveness and distorts the relationship between humanity and God. Forgiving oneself is impossible and unnecessary, […]
“Ye Which Are Spiritual”
Few things are more devastating to the life of someone who has fallen than being placed into the hands of an unspiritual Christian. Many have been permanently damaged by individuals lacking true spirituality, attempting to restore them under the guise of religious duty. Churches are often filled with people who possess spiritual language, attire, activities, […]
Why Do Preachers’ Kids Fall?
It is a familiar story—children raised in the homes of pastors and ministry leaders drift into sin, sometimes profoundly. This reality has played out in countless families, leaving many to question how such a thing could happen to those nurtured in environments grounded in biblical teaching and Christian service. The assumption often lies in the […]
When You Think Your Life Is Over
The story was heartbreaking. A pastor had taken his own life after a tragic fall into sin. He was already distant from God, and on his way to a conference, he took a detour to a place where he thought no one would recognize him. He entered a bar, ordered a drink, and struck up […]
What To Do When You Can’t Undo What Has Already Been Done
In life, we often long for do-overs. But for many, the greater desire is for undo-overs. David surely would have welcomed an undo-over with Bathsheba. Samson would have cried out for one when he woke to find his hair cut and his strength gone. Abraham likely wished for an undo-over when he realized the consequences […]
What To Do When the Church Rejects You
A man recently sought counseling after committing a sin within his church. He was not on staff but was involved in some ministries. When confronted about his sin, he broke down and confessed before the pastor and God. In conversation, it became clear that he carried a spirit of brokenness. His pastor faced a difficult […]
What Should a Pastor Do When Their Child Falls?
When the child of a pastor experiences a public fall into sin, the weight can feel overwhelming. It is a unique and painful burden—navigating personal grief while simultaneously leading and ministering to a congregation. Questions arise not only about how to handle the fallen child but also how to address the church family. This guide […]
What a Church Should Do When a Pastor Falls
It happens. It is nothing new. Every generation seems to believe they are the first to witness pastors fall, but throughout history, there have been pastors who have experienced moral failure. Satan knows the weaknesses of men and consistently seeks to lure them into sin. Tragically, most churches are unprepared for such events. As a […]
Types of Restoration
Restoration is a multifaceted and often misunderstood aspect of the Christian faith. Over the years, various perspectives and approaches to restoration have emerged. While restoration should ideally return someone to their original position with the Lord—and potentially to their original calling—its manifestation can differ depending on circumstances and individuals involved. This article explores the different […]
The Valley of the Shadow of Sin’s Consequences
When a person falls into sin, it often feels as if they are walking in the shadow of their sin’s consequences. The Bible warns, “Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death” (James 1:15). Sin introduces consequences into life. Sometimes these consequences are brief and […]